TRAITS OF A GOOD WIFE

SHE IS SELFLESS

Do you want to date a person who does not even help his family? Neither does he.
Selflessness is the key to a successful marriage. It can even save a failing relationship If you act kindly with strangers, volunteer at a homeless shelter, do other selfless acts. He will find more reasons to be with you. How to be selfless in marriage? Put your spouse’s needs first. Be a good listener  Learn to compromise. Start thinking “We” instead of “I"

SHE SHOULD NOT BE A PARTY ANIMAL:

If she drinks and sleeps at the club couch she's not the one. A night club should be a strange place for her. Don't believe girls who say, “we were just hanging out with the girls at the club”.
Many are cheats and nag strange men to buy them alcohol.

SHE’S A GOOD COOK

The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. That sounds gross but basically she doesn’t HAVE to know how to cook but it wouldn’t exactly hurt if she did either, like who doesn’t want a great cook willing to make you food? If she can cook it definitely is a plus one.

ABILITY TO STAY WITH A BROKE MAN

An ideal wife is not just about material things and she sticks to and motivates her man during his financial downtimes. They don't care that their men won't buy them expensive gifts or take them down to the coast for a weekend. True to their faith, these men make it. The girls who rejected broke men keeps jumping from one sponsor to another.

SHE’S PATIENT

Who likes a temperamental person? No one!
it’s okay if she gets mad over bigger issues that are important but to be super angry over something small is simply unattractive so make sure a woman’s patient before you tie the knot with her.

A GOOD WIFE IS HARD-WORKING & INDUSTRIOUS

A good and virtuous wife doesn’t just expect to be provided for by her husband. she has her own ambition. She has her own goals in life.
A good wife however is also a provider herself together with her husband. She is not lazy but she is hard-working and she does what she can to play her part financially in the home. There is not just one breadwinner in the home – but both wife and husband are breadwinners. Read Proverbs 31:13,15,18,27.....

USES MONEY WISELY

She needs to use every money carefully. She shouldn't buy very expensive make-up and Brazilian weaves boasting that "my man has money”. She ought to live contrary to the slogan; a man should have a wife who spends more money than he can make. Money making ventures and good investment should be at her finger tips.

SHE SUPPORTS HER MAN

If a woman is willing to sacrifice her comfort so you can pursue your dreams, marry her… she obviously loves you. Behind very successful man is a woman. So, don’t marry one who won’t encourage you to try to achieve all that you want to. You have goals and she should recognize them. (If you tell her you want to grow wings I’m pretty sure no sane woman would support it so try to keep your goals achievable)

GOD FEARING

She should not only be a church goer but the doer of the WORD..e.g Submissive , Faithful, Honest etc. Proverbs 31:30 – Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. She ought to give offering and tithe. She forgives ,gives and  prays. Anything less than isn't worth the trouble. She won't raise children in a Godly way.

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