How to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend (And Get a Yes) Asking a girl to be your girlfriend can be a big step particularly when you consider you’re asking a girl to disregard partners and be only with you. For this reason, the act of asking should be well thought out and should match the personality of the girl.
In other words, don’t set up an elaborate, romantic moment if it’s going to cause the girl to burst into laughter or flee the scene out of embarrassment. First, you need to make sure you’ve befriended her first or at least make sure you two are dating before you pop up the big question. You don’t want to rush things here.
It’ll end up all in a fiasco if you do. Make sure you two are close and aren’t just mere acquaintances. Next, make sure you made a lot of physical contact. At least up to having sex a couple of times. This will create the necessary bond and connection that’s required for the big question. It will also create the right environment considering the fact that you now know each other a little bit more intimately. All of these are like foundations that’ll make the relationship building stand.
Furthermore, make sure you both have been together for at least 3 months. You don’t want to ask someone to be your girlfriend right at the first day or week you met; if anything, it’s awkward to do so. If you’re going to be asking someone to be your girlfriend, then you must spend a lot of time with the person to at least get to know the person enough, so as to ensure the success of your, hopefully, imminent relationship.
What are you supposed to say? That’s a pertinent question. First, as earlier hinted, you must consider the girl’s personality. You don’t want to set up an elaborate, romantic moment if it’s going to cause the girl to burst into laughter or flee the scene out of embarrassment. According to Psychology Today, one of the tips for preparing for an anxiety-inducing conversation is to consider how the other person probably feels. Hence, be simple.
Just set aside a time and tell her you like the way things are headed and you don’t want to be seeing anyone else but her....then wait for her to response. That’s it. If you followed the tips in this article, you’d have greatly reduced your chances of rejection. Hence, apply the tips and give the big question a try.

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