Rule #1 - Be open and unafraid to be yourself. Don’t be a “yes man” and agree with everything she says, unless of course you actually DO agree with everything she says.
Rule #2 - Don’t talk about past relationships!!!! Total buzzkill!!!
Rule #3 - Don’t be in a hurry for anything. Be sure of yourself. Take your time.
Rule #4 - Humor always helps. Most girls love humor and if you happen to be witty it is an extreme turn-on to some women (don’t overdo it though!!). And of course if you aren’t good at telling jokes don’t go there. It’s OK. Not everybody is a comedian.
One little trick I used to use on first dates was to take her out to a comedy club or event. It was a great way of avoiding the sometimes awkward first time conversation and still entertaining your date. It has always worked great to break the ice because then after the show you both have the common experience to share and laugh about ….maybe over dinner?
The main point to keep in mind is that your concern is with “her” and nobody else but don’t be overbearing. Just let her know through subtle mannerisms that your mind is on her and only her! Don’t let your eyes bounce around the room looking at the other girls!! If she has the slightest interest in you she WILL be watching your every move!!
Also, if things don’t go well, just be OK with it. Don’t feel less of yourself if she just doesn’t hit it off with you. Don’t get emotional or upset!! Females look for males to be self confident. So don’t fold after the first rejection. Sometimes if you handle rejection well, some girls are turned on by that and will reconsider! And if not, oh well, there are more fish in the sea! You may have very well have avoided a bad relationship. And believe me, no relationship is WAY BETTER than a bad one.
Hope I was of some help. It’s been awhile since I was single, but the psychology is the same. Happy hunting.
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