WHY YOU MUST BE LOVED IN RETURN
First, you need to understand why she fell out of love in the first place. For example; being unfaithful in the relationship, not spending enough time together, not taking interest in her interests, not communicating well, etc… once you come to terms with that, then you can start making yourself a better person (not just for her, but for yourself as well)
Next, Try to remember the things that you guys did in the beginning of the relationship that made her fall in love with you in the first place. Start going out on dates more, showing her you appreciate her with flowers, her favorite bottle of wine, a nice homecooked (or bought) meal that she loves. Women love when you remember things about them, it makes us feel like you’re actually interested in getting to know us better.
Finally, Lay all your cards on the table. Which means, you need to just let her know how you feel about trying to work on things with her and build a better relationship!
ONLY do this step if you feel like you’re actually ready. If you think that you just miss her for the time being and you’re going to be back on your bullshit, then just leave her alone. No point in wasting both of your time.
Make sure you prepare for her to say no to getting back together. (she might say yes!! but just in case) If she does say no, don’t let that make you become obsessive or start begging her. Give her the space she wants and still be there for her if she needs anything. Try to build/rebuild a friendship with her and help her grow as a person; you never know what could happen, she might fall in love with you all over again .
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